I've
been thinking a lot about independence lately. What do I think and feel about
myself is what makes me an individual. If I think I need to rely on others’
opinions, then I’m mostly part of a group. I’m not an individual as I care too
much on what others think. This seems very basic and simple to do, but it is
not. I still struggle with wanting confirmation on my ideas or my future plans.
This is dangerous in a way because I may miss a direction that can open up a
whole new world for me. Just because others have their own ideas or beliefs in
my abilities does not mean they are right. Also, if I know that I should have
better treatment or education and guidance than I need to stand up for myself
and not just accept mediocre advice.
Being
an individual means I might have to rock the boat. People will probably get
annoy because I will voice my opinions and will not back down. It will be difficult
at first as I might lose some friends and leave my comfort zone. I do love
everyone and want to make everyone happy. However, sometimes that is not
possible if it means they are not valuing me. It is not just me I’m concerned
about but others who have fallen through the cracks and have not gotten the
best help. They are individuals too! So I’m not just asserting my independence,
but I’m becoming an individual!
Happy Independence!
