Because of being born without the ability to smile, I learned that I had to define what a smile is.  If I could physically smile, would that be the smile I actually want? Or is a smile more than facial expression?  Growing up I never really thought about it. I knew I looked different and there were times I would fantasize about having a beautiful face with a glowing smile. But most times I just didn't really think about it.

When I was in my early twenties, I saw a little girl on the news tha...

I've been thinking a lot about independence lately. What do I think and feel about myself is what makes me an individual. If I think I need to rely on others’ opinions, then I’m mostly part of a group. I’m not an individual as I care too much on what others think. This seems very basic and simple to do, but it is not. I still struggle with wanting confirmation on my ideas or my future plans. This is dangerous in a way because I may miss a direction that can open up a whole new world for...