There are years and times in one’s life that change automatically. It’s like a magic wand waved across one’s head and it finally dawns on a person that she or he has the power to control their life. Before then, one believes their life is control by others and circumstance. Sometimes people never grow out of that mindset. They become prisoners in their own mind.

Luckily, I have finally realized I have the potential to change my life. It’s not going to be easy.  I need some super stre...