Posted by Theresa McMillan on Friday, August 21, 2015,
I’m very excited
in returning to college to finish getting my English Literature degree! Taking
a year off was what I needed to evaluate what I want to do and where I’m going.
The biggest decision was to stay at my current college or go somewhere else.
Before my leave of absence, there were many changes. Some that were very
jarring to me and also I had doubts about my major. I love writing but not
technical. But “Time heals all wounds” as they say. And it also lets you digest
the chan...
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"Halloween Woman"
Posted by Theresa McMillan on Wednesday, November 5, 2014,
“I know I look a
little scary, but don’t be afraid. All I want is a friend.” This is from a page
in my children’s book I’m Smiling on the
Inside. As a grown woman, it’s sometimes ironic that I feel this way too
about adults, particularly men. It’s like I’m some Halloween Woman that men run
away from! There’s a lot to be said about how a man reacts to how a woman looks,
and I know how this is to be true! LOL!
But in all seriousness,
I wish men weren’t so frightened. Just l...
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“How to Define a Smile”
Posted by Theresa McMillan on Tuesday, July 22, 2014,
Because of being born without
the ability to smile, I learned that I had to define what a smile is. If I could physically smile, would that be
the smile I actually want? Or is a smile more than facial expression? Growing up I never really thought about it. I
knew I looked different and there were times I would fantasize about having a
beautiful face with a glowing smile. But most times I just didn't really think
about it.
When I was in my early twenties,
I saw a little girl on the news tha...
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2013: A Year of Challenge and Change to 2014: A Year of Transition
Posted by Theresa McMillan on Sunday, March 16, 2014,
I’m sorry I haven’t written
anything for a while. The winter months always seem dark for me. Both of my parents got very sick and died
during this of year. So you can see it has its haunting reminders. The last few months of 2013 have been more of
traumatic than in recent years. My next door neighbors, whom I have known since
I came to live here fifteen years ago, decided to move. They were getting older
and wanted to be closer to their family. I understood and supported their
decision,...
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"Pen in Hand: or What would John Lennon Say Today"
Posted by Theresa McMillan on Wednesday, October 9, 2013,
What would John Lennon say today?
He would still say, "Give Peace a chance."
Let's end this ridiculous political dance.
With pen in hand,
He would say, "All you need is love."
Why is it so hard for you?
Just look at what the world's going through:
War is not the answer to look to.
Come on, let's have the new revolution
With the idea of love as the solution.
With pen in hand,
John would say, "Why can't you understand?"
Yes, we are all from the different countries,
But inside we are all the same.
So let's st...
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"Cats That Like to Eat Rats"
Posted by Theresa McMillan on Monday, July 8, 2013,
If I should write a fable, it would be something like
this: There lived a littlest kitten. All the other kittens didn’t care about
him. They thought he would never amount to much since he was so small. “You’re
never big like us,” they taunted him. He was hurt that they said things like
that and left him out of the group. But he always remained kind to them.
The kittens loved chasing the rats around the house. It
was fun and for exercise. “It’s s so much fun to chase our food! We...
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Far from the Tree and Appreciating Andrew
Posted by Theresa McMillan on Friday, February 1, 2013,
One word that I
can describe about the book, Far from the
Tree, is challenge: the challenge for people with differences to love
themselves, the challenge for families to accept their loved ones as they are,
and the challenge for society to embrace people of unique personalities and
physical differences.
As a person with
many differences, I can relate to the many people featured in the book and
understand what is like to live in a society that is very challenging and
confusing.
I apprecia...
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"Normal and Me"
Posted by Theresa McMillan on Saturday, January 26, 2013,
I
wanted Normal but Normal didn’t want me. I didn’t understand this. It really unsettled
me. One day I talked to Normal: “Why didn’t you want me?” I asked. Normal
replied: “Because normal is not normal anymore.” Perplexed, I asked what that
meant. She said: “Normal was normal a long time ago. When people were first
created, they were normal. Their life was centered on caring and loving one
another. However, when they got to be
rich and interested in achievement and in ma...
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